In the modern world, during the searches of the perfect partner, we arrange casting in editing applications, have sex “for health” or “nothing to do”. What is dangerous or useful for such ties for a woman? Will they give strength or, conversely, take away the last? Eastern medicine expert explains his point of view.
There are many myths and legends about the energy component of sex: someone says that sex “for health” charges and gives the woman confidence. Opponents of this idea claim that a man “eats” female energy. One of the brightest myths is about the “energy worm”, which the insidious man is hooking into the female body, and he shakes its energy for seven years, passing it to the owner.
However, real experience shows: if a woman enters into fleeting intimate ties, then she can both get an excellent impressions with the effect of recharging, and feel devastation and disappointment. How to understand what random sex will bring you?
The Taoist tradition relys on the idea of people in qi energy – “fuel” on which we “work”. So, the first described option is to obtain additional qi energy and improve its circulation, and the second is, on the contrary, the loss of qi.
Emotional factor
If a woman has any fears before entering into a sexual connection, then the emotional background will literally eat life forces. “I will have sex with him – what if it’s not love?”,” If I fall in love, but he is
not?”,” I will refuse, and he will decide that I am cold “,” Suddenly this is “the same”, and I will miss him?” – millions of thoughts on this subject can be deprived of pleasure both at the moment of proximity and before and after this process.
What to do? Most of these fears are based on self -doubt, which is better to cope with the help of psychological work. For example, you can start with benefits or seminars to increase self -esteem. Your task is to remove uncertainty and doubt, to learn to listen to yourself and understand whether you need proximity at the moment or not. Having made the decision, you can plunge into this adventure with your head – without unnecessary experiences about the future that can turn almost any cool event into serious stress.